Make it a tradition
The Pumpkin Box
1 October each year
Each family member opens a Halloween box on 1 October, a little like a Christmas present. Fill it with sweets, seasonal socks, a small decoration, a spooky book and a Halloween activity.

What you need
- One box, bag, or tin per person, including the adults
- Paper, ribbon, stickers, or paint for the outside
- Tissue paper or shredded paper
- A sweet or snack checked against the household allergy list
- Seasonal socks, a hat, or another small wearable
- One decoration that can stay out until Halloween
- A spooky book that suits that person's age
- A Halloween activity: a craft, a game, or a note promising one
How to do it
- Write every name in the household, children and adults. A box only for the children makes 1 October feel like a party for them. A box for everyone makes it a house tradition.
- Decorate the outside on an ordinary evening before October. Shoeboxes, gift bags, and biscuit tins all work. Orange paper, black ribbon, stickers, or a drawn pumpkin are enough.
- Pack five things: something to eat, something to wear, something for a shelf, something to read, and something to do. Keep the activity small enough for the table, such as paper bats, a biscuit recipe, or a promise of pumpkin soup.
- Put a note on the lid: “Open on 1 October.” Hide the boxes for a surprise, or leave them in sight so the waiting is part of it.
- Open them together on the morning of 1 October. The Halloween Calendar unlocks its first door the same day, so the box can start the morning and the calendar can wait until later.
One household's version
A family of four uses shoeboxes from the cupboard. The five-year-old's box holds sweets from the allergy list on the fridge, orange socks, a paper pumpkin for the window, a picture book they already love, and a slip that says “pumpkin soup for tea.” The older child gets a longer spooky story and the job of choosing the Halloween music. Both grown-ups get a box as well: a chocolate bar, silly socks, a tiny pumpkin for the shelf, a short ghost story, and a note letting them pick the family film. Nobody spends more than a few pounds.
Safety note: Check for allergies, keep small parts away from under-3s, and choose a book that suits each child's age.