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The Pumpkin Naming Ceremony

First weekend of October each year

Everyone chooses a pumpkin, gives it a name and invents a backstory. The pumpkins become family members for the season and stay on display until Halloween.

Three pumpkins on a wooden step at night, one painted with swirls, with ribbons on their stems.

What you need

  • One pumpkin per person, any size
  • A step, tray, or shelf where they can sit until Halloween
  • Paint, stickers, or markers for younger children
  • Carving tools kept for adults only
  • A battery candle if you want a glow
  • A card kept indoors for the names and stories

How to do it

  1. On the first weekend of October, choose the pumpkins together. Each person picks their own, including the adults.
  2. Before anyone cuts anything, name the pumpkin and tell a short backstory. Write the names on a card kept indoors.
  3. Younger children paint or sticker their pumpkin. An adult does any carving, and only if you want a carved one.
  4. Put the pumpkins where the household will see them: the step, the table, or a shelf.
  5. They stay until Halloween. If one softens early, compost it and let the others finish the season.

One household's version

A family of three names theirs Pip, Captain Cob, and Aunt Marrow. Pip is painted and “guards the biscuit tin.” A parent carves Captain Cob only after the children have drawn his hat on paper. The pumpkins sit on the step and get a wave when the lights go out.

Safety note: Adults should do any carving. Younger children can paint or decorate their pumpkin instead.